In 2001, I separated from my boyfriend and had a sexual encounter with my ex boyfriend (the only other person I've ever slept with) I performed oral sex on him. About a week later I got a cold sore (I've had this type of sore all my life, even before I ever kissed a guy). I also had a bump just inside my vaginal lip. Later my boyfriend got a bump. I had shaved my vagina thoroughly before the sexual encounter with my ex. I have noticed that any time I shave my vagina about a week later a bump pops up just like the first bump in the same area. But, I've looked at pictures of genital herpes, read the symptoms and they don't match up. The bump I get is never red, does not open, and never scabs over. The bump comes up several times a year about a week after shaving. This also doesn't fit with what I've read. Is it possible I have genital herpes or just an ingrown hair. After the hair starts to grow back, I feel it poking me in the area where the bump comes up. I just wanted to add that I have spoke with the health department and they feel it's probably just an ingrown hair that keeps appearing, but I haven't had a bump for them to test. Also a heat compress makes the bump go down. I just wanted to add that the bump I get looks nothing like a blister and occurs at the very top of my vagina, no where near the opening, clitoris, or anus.